When professionals say the wrong thing

Some of the things I've heard that have been said to people with hair loss have been extremely hurtful. You would think that a physician or specialist would have a better bedside manner or show some empathy, but unfortunately some practitioners don't grasp the fact that many people with hair loss are worried and upset.

I've heard of one hair-loss specialist who said to a woman, "You're halfway through your life, and you've lost half your hair ... that seems fair." You can imagine why she ran out of his office crying!

Another physician not only showed no sympathy for a man's hair loss but also doubled the insult when he said, "It's a shame you're so short. People wouldn't be able to see your hair loss if you were taller." As you might expect, he wasn't too pleased.

Hair loss often contributes to a loss of self-esteem and increased anxiety and depression, so comments of this sort really aggravate people's concerns. What can you do if something like this is said to you? I suggest leaving the office immediately and complaining to the board through which the practitioner is licensed. Also, look for a professional who has been personally recommended to you by a friend. Lastly, try not to let it affect you. It is the specialist who has a problem - not you.